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Patricia and Joanna

Based on December 2016 interview

From the Angeles City barangay Pulung Bulu,  sisters Joanna, 23, and Patricia, 21, are natives to the area.  They are two of three sisters and nine siblings presently living with their family. Their father, 64, is unemployed and their mother, 54, makes a living laundering clothing.  Though their mother had had a high school education, their father’s education was limited.  As single mothers, it was important to find a vocation.  After high school, Patricia and Joanna developed the hand-eye coordination to earn a living operating sewing machines working as dressmakers. Because of the popularity of ornate pageants and festivals, the need for costumes is always in demand.  

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Older sister Joanna began working at the age of 18 and has been working as a dressmaker ever since she began adulthood along with her sister.  She began working full time to help her mother and father with household expenses. She had a close relationship with Patricia as children which has carried on through adulthood.

Currently involved in a relationship, Joanna and her current boyfriend first crossed paths at work while visiting for a delivery.  Satisfied, with her recent relationship, Patricia loves her new boyfriend. She likes doing what most couples enjoy such as dating and spending quality time.  “He is hardworking and loves me unconditionally,” Joanna says of her love interest.  Despite the difficulties associated with the institution of marriage, it is a promising prospect for Joanna. However, for 23-year-old Joanna, marriage ranks low on her list of priorities.  Beforehand, Joanna aspires to travel abroad to a Middle Eastern country such as Bahrain to earn money to advance her education and become financially stable. “I want to study more and grow more,” Joanna says of her plans before contemplating marriage.

Joanna’s sister and workmate describes coming from a big family as “hard at first” but ultimately “happy and fun.”  She enjoyed learning new and playing with her siblings. Patricia has the utmost respect for her parents.  She began working full time to help her mother and father with household expenses. She had a close relationship with Joanna as children which has carried on through adulthood.

Content with life in the Philippines, apart from the Filipino way of life, Joanna says she loves living in the Philippines because she is close to her family and friends and people she encounters daily are warm and hospitable. She is happy with her current job because of the ease of work and fun working environment. “Typically, we take orders from our clients in a given time.  We do our job.  Usually, in a day, we make ten to fifteen dresses,” she says of a common workday.   She likes the controversial new president Rodrigo Duterte.  “I think he’s a good president and can do (make) good change in our country [the] Philippines…”     

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Mila and Teresa

Based on interview from April 2017

    Mila, 25, and Teresa, 22, are older sisters of Gia and Jenna.  They earn substantial income working in an outdoor market selling hot dogs, juices, and other household items.  She attended business training seminars with her sister and combined the money they saved to invest in inventory and kitchen supplies to open a spot at Angeles City’s Santa Tersata Market.  She is one of eight siblings.  Unlike their father, Gia and Jenna, both sisters managed to complete secondary education.

    Mila currently resides with her family alongside her live-in partner who she met at a local canteen. As a child, Mila enjoyed going to school and playing with her siblings and friends.  At 18 she began to enter the workforce. Her jobs ranged from working in fast-food restaurants and was one of the many women to work as a weaver in the furniture industry. Working as a weaver was difficult for Mila. She would often cut her hands while overlapping tree fibers while constructing top-grade rattan furniture ready for export to the US and other countries abroad. The hectic schedule spent enclosed in a make-due workshop in an area home, with little time allotted for social interaction made Mila’s former position at a fast-food restaurant seem more appealing… 

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    Emily and Rachelle

    Feature is based on January 2017 interview

    Emily, 45, and Rachelle, 38, have been living in the Angeles City area for their entire life. Emily is a widow with three children and Rachelle is separated with two sons.  They are two of six children.  Growing up, they lived with four brothers, sister and parents. With limited education, Emily and Rachelle’s mother, 86, and father, 91, worked as wage laborers before they had enough money to start a small business. Inseparable, Emily and Rachelle take turns working together maintaining a family-ran small business.  They sell everyday staples such as snacks, laundry detergents, and cigarettes out of their father’s sari-sari store.  Tagalog, meaning “sundry” or “variety,” sari-sari stores are commonly seen in communities throughout the archipelago and play an integral part in the Philippine economy.  Unlike in the United States where “big box” marts and convenience chains have dominated the economy, the prevalence of sari-sari stores throughout the Philippines keep the spirit of small business alive and well… 

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    Rona and Roane

    Sitting in the cemetary
    Rona (left) and Roane (right) sitting in La Peita  Memorial Park

    Originally written July 2016

    Originally from Olongapo, a coastal city in Luzon’s Zambales province, Rona and Roane are single mothers who presently reside in the northern Isle’s landlocked province of Pampanga. Rona,29, and Roane,28, are two of six children. Throughout childhood, they grew up with their youngest sister,18,  and two brothers, 27 and 17.  As teens, they welcomed a new addition to the family as their mother, just shy of her fortieth birthday gave birth to their youngest brother,  10.   Other than Taglish, a unique hybrid of English and the commonly-spoken Tagalog, a language they would often hear on television talk shows and dramas, Rona and Roane had minimal exposure to English.  Growing up, Tagalog, and Kapampangan, the region’s indigenous language, remained their main means of oral expression.

    As teens, their father, 49, invested money earned delivering gravel in relocating their family closer to Manila and the purchase of a motorcycle with side cart to pursue a new venture as an independent city tricycle operator.  At the age of sixteen Roane decided to move in with her boyfriend, two years her senior.  They rented an apartment together and soon became pregnant, carrying her first child.  Like her father, Roane’s boyfriend earned a modest living as a tricycle driver while Roane found work weaving rattan furniture in a home-based business.  She worked up to twelve hours daily, six days of the week except Sunday – her day of rest.  After three years as a weaver, Roane found a position working as a machine operator at a Clark Field light fixture assembly plant. Roane noticed a night and day difference en route to and from her job. The wide open green space and air conditioned, multi-bed-roomed houses synonymous with Eisenhower-era suburban Americana inside Clark contrasted starkly to the drab tin-roofed cement tenements of the neighborhood which she and her coworkers lived, only a short jeepney ride away.  The former US airbase eludes locals such as Roane.  Seemingly, Clark’s parameters remain well-defined and isolated from the immediate area as it was prior to US military withdrawal in 1992. US servicemen that once patrolled the boundaries are replaced with security guards who check identifications of wage earners who flock daily through the entrances on their morning commute to the hotels, restaurants, call centers, and manufacturing plants within Clark’s present-day Freeport Zone. Unlike younger sister Roane, she works outside the confines of Clark in a wallet and accessory factory in neighboring San Fernando…

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